There are things in life we are allowed to exercise our choices but not all. The Scripture stated: ‘I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live’ (Deuteronomy 30:19). Well here, you have a choice to make. When it comes to Spouse, it is a dangerous thing to choose because it is a sure way to misery in life and if not delivered while alive, for eternity because the bitterness is hell bound.
God hated divorce because of the children you brought out to suffer. As for the man and woman involved, God is so gentle that if you do not care to seek Him, He will not bother though He cares but will never force you. To tell you the truth, if you do not accept Jesus as your LORD and Saviour but keeps all His principles, He has no problem with you. The only problem you have is that you will be eternally separated from Him because that’s your choice.
It is for the man to discover and recognise his wife and the wife’s part is to ask God for a witness or confirmation. Your wife is taken out from your own body and one with you. There is war if any other man picks her. Yes! God did reveal to Adam’s spirit and that’s why he understood and prophesied. ‘And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.’ (Genesis 2:21-25)
Abraham’s servant sought God while going for Isaac’s wife and God answered. ‘And he said, O LORD God of my master Abraham, I pray thee, send me good speed this day, and shew kindness unto my master Abraham. Behold, I stand here by the well of water; and the daughters of the men of the city come out to draw water: And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast shewed kindness unto my master. And it came to pass, before he had done speaking, that, behold, Rebekah came out, who was born to Bethuel, son of Milcah, the wife of Nahor, Abraham’s brother, with her pitcher upon her shoulder. And the damsel was very fair to look upon, a virgin, neither had any man known her: and she went down to the well, and filled her pitcher, and came up. And the servant ran to meet her, and said, Let me, I pray thee, drink a little water of thy pitcher. And she said, Drink, my lord: and she hasted, and let down her pitcher upon her hand, and gave him drink. And when she had done giving him drink, she said, I will draw water for thy camels also, until they have done drinking. And she hasted, and emptied her pitcher into the trough, and ran again unto the well to draw water, and drew for all his camels.’ (Genesis 24:12-20)
He is the same God today. I reserve a testimony of my own for the appointed time but don’t be surprise, you can even meet your wife through a social network and God would bear the witness. He knows about the Internet. Don’t think God is old school. Some exchange blame for broken homes, separation and divorce but the root cause has not been dealt with. Based on the revelation I received, you cannot marry another man’s wife and sleep peacefully. The LORD impressed this to me, ‘Out of it comes destruction, opposition and annoying.’ It is a spiritual matter that is applicable physically. The Word of the LORD came to me and He said, ‘He made them male and female.’ He had a good reason for relating this emphasis to me.
The Scripture noted: ‘The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother’s womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.’ (Matthew 19:3-12).
The Word of God is very clear here! If it is your choice to be a eunuch or forced to be one, you don’t have much problem. Where you have problem is taken another man’s wife, because she is one flesh with another man spiritually. It is a spiritual thing and unless you seek with all your heart, you won’t receive the revelation. You are not joined by man but rather God. One thing I have noticed is that people honour the tradition of men than God’s commandment. They choose a wife and a priest or pastor or registry official joins them with rings and certificate and they think God is smiling with them.
Note! I am not saying that going to marriage solemnization is not good. What I am after is, make sure that you are married to your own spouse and only God can make it clear, when you seek Him with all your heart. Some people would want to seek Him only when they want to get married, but you can’t fool God. He knows your inner most intention. In the case of Israel, see how He dealt with them when they lusted for meat, ‘And while the flesh was yet between their teeth, ere it was chewed, the wrath of the LORD was kindled against the people, and the LORD smote the people with a very great plague.’ (Numbers 11:33). So God cannot be mocked!
There is only one sure way to start today and that is obedience. If you have not yet made peace with Jesus or not too sure of your salvation by accepting Jesus Christ as your LORD and Saviour, this is your time appointed. First of all, you cannot serve who you do not know. Jesus is not an ordinary prophet like I heard people of other religious orientation say or argue. There is no argument about this. I received a first -hand revelation based on this and you are free as well to seek. Jesus Christ is God Himself that came in human flesh. You may ask. ‘How come there is God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit?’ The image of all these three is Jesus Christ as my image is called Kyrian. You may liken The Father as your spirit, the Son as your body and the Holy Spirit as your soul. There is only one true God and His name is Jesus Christ!
If you want to make peace with Him today, just repeat after me. ‘LORD Jesus Christ, now I understand that you are the only wise and true God that humbled Himself for the salvation of mankind. I now accept you as my personal LORD, Saviour and Righteousness. I am sorry for my sin against you. Please forgive me of all my sin and cleanse me of all unrighteousness. I renounce my association with evil works. I now plead your precious Blood of sanctification which you shed on the Cross for my ransom. Thank you for all you have done for my redemption and peace with you.’ Amen!
Congratulations! If you have said this prayer and meant it, you are born of God’s Spirit and a relative of mine. The next step is to get a Bible and start reading it. The Holy Spirit will guide you in all truth. It is nice to join fellow Brethren in fellowship. It will help you grow spiritually. However, based on what I have noticed, there are wolves in sheep clothing. So before you join, seek the face of the LORD. Nevertheless, if your heart is sincere, no harm will undue you but rather purify you. Do everything as unto the LORD and not man. If you need to ask me anything, do not hesitate. God bless you precious one!
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