Charity begins at home as I heard! If you don’t cheer and encourage your wife, who else will you encourage? As a matter of facts the LORD loved women so much and showed me how delicate they are. He used a Computer while illustrating and asked me to take good care of my wife and cheer her up. Even in the Old Testament, a provision was made for the newly married couple to have up to a year together for the husband to cheer the wife. The LORD wants you to ask and also wants you to think. However, you have to do the asking first for Him to empower and order your thought in the right direction. ‘A man’s heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps.’ Proverbs 16:9.
I want to reiterate on this because this is the foundation of human existence. God choose Abraham for one thing and that is because he has the ability to train his children. He didn’t leave his children at the mercy of the worldly government, school system and corrupt media. ‘And the LORD said, Shall I hide from Abraham that thing which I do; Seeing that Abraham shall surely become a great and mighty nation, and all the nations of the earth shall be blessed in him? For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him.’ Genesis 18:17-19
I have learnt to search for the root cause of problems and not their results. The cause of family problems emanates from the foundation. The foundation truth has to be re-established for things to go in conformity. Deviation causes disaster. When it comes to marriage, spiritual connectivity is the first statement. Marriage is a spiritual encounter and determines the kind of life you would live thereafter. Marrying the wrong person is hell on earth. If you never had a revelation or a vision concerning your spouse, do not proceed. If you are married to a witch blessed by human institution and wants to insist in honouring human institution rather than God’s commandment, good luck!
The Word of God says, ‘Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.’ Proverbs 18:22. It does not say, ‘Whoso choseth a wife —-.’ Today, people choose for themselves and blame God for the consequences. Choosing is a matter of balloting or trying your luck. To find, means that your wife is already made and existing. ‘So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.’ Genesis 1:27-28.
As Jesus said, Moses allowed divorce because of hardiness of heart. This means, not seeking God before entering into marital relationship. Since He made them male and female, your spouse is already in existence for you to find and only the Spirit of God understands and reveals secret things. To manifest anything is not an easy task. Just as a woman that is pregnant waits till her time to deliver comes. Put your trust in the LORD at the appointed time, He will make your joy full. If you understand these things, ‘Happy are ye.’
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